About Melissa
My Journey Through High-Conflict Divorce
I know firsthand what a high conflict divorce and post-separation abuse feels like—
it’s like stumbling through a minefield in the dark, never knowing when the next step will shatter your footing.
I was mentally beaten down, overwhelmed, uncertain, and stripped of the clarity I needed to make decisions for myself and my children. I remember the weight of that fear, the exhaustion of trying to hold it all together, and the wondering if I’d ever find solid footing again.
That experience shaped not only who I am—but why I do this work. When the dust settled, I knew there had to be a better way. I knew I wasn’t the only one who had felt lost in the chaos and desperate for help. What I needed most was guidance rooted in security, to help navigate one of life’s hardest journeys.
My Background
I pursued specialized degrees and certifications in divorce coaching, mediation, high-conflict dynamics, abuse, and co-parenting strategies.
Now, with these tools and insights, I offer comprehensive support to my clients — from the first steps of contemplation to post-divorce healing and co-parenting success.
My Qualifications
** Master of Arts
Mediation and Conflict Resolution
** CDC Certified Divorce Coach©
** CDC Amicable Divorce Coach®
** CDC Holistic Divorce Coach™
** Coercive Control Trauma-Informed Coach
Coercive Control Consulting Institute©
** Certified High Conflict Divorce Coach
One Mom's Battle
Disclaimer
I’m not an attorney or therapist—I’m a certified divorce coach and trained mediator here to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.
"Melissa was in my first graduating class of certified, high conflict divorce coaches. Melissa will be an amazing resource and advocate for those who find themselves in a high-conflict divorce or child-custody battle. It was an honor to have her in the program, and I look forward to cheering her on in her advocacy work."
Tina Swithin,
CEO/Founder of the High Conflict
Divorce Coach Certification Program
"Melissa’s insight has been invaluable in helping me maintain composure throughout my divorce proceedings. She provided practical guidance, steady reassurance, and a level of clarity that helped me stay focused on what truly mattered." - Angela
"Melissa’s parenting plan guidance was incredibly helpful when I presented my ideas to my attorney. Our sessions gave me the clarity and structure I needed to create a solid written plan which ultimately saved me both time and money." -Linda
"Melissa’s calm, structured approach made it possible for both parties to work together productively. Her guidance kept conversations focused, respectful, and solution‑oriented, helping us reach agreements far more efficiently than expected.” -Taylor
